How to say no without hurting someone feelings
Saying No Quotes (36 quotes)
How to Say No Politely - Good Manners
How to say no to anyone (even a good friend or family member)
Well, you are not alone. One of the hardest things to do is to say no, especially if the person asking is a close friend or a good family member. The reason for this is that we as humans are social beings. We crave acceptance and being likeable. Consequently, we feel that turning down a friend or family member will make them hate us. However, it is true that you also have your issues, goals, and plans that require your attention and resources.
I asked myself why it was so important for me to please everyone , to the point that I would feel resentful and stressed because of it. I realized I was afraid of saying no because my biggest fear is rejection. I was afraid that every time I did this, I would disappoint someone, make them angry, hurt their feelings, or appear unkind or rude. Having people think negatively of me is the ultimate rejection. Whether they say what they think of me, out loud or not, does not matter to me. It is the thought that they look down on me.
How to say, "no" without hurting someone's feelings.
I never thought that such a simple word could make such a profound difference in my life. - You start to say no, but yes slips out. Yes seems to be your preset button because with every no you feel guilty.
I recently received an email from an acquaintance asking if he could stay with me while visiting New York City. Mind you, this was someone who I wasn't very close to, and he had the means to book a hotel. I simply did not feel comfortable having him stay. I had three options: 1. I could say no and not feel bad about saying it. I went with option three.