Conversation between mother and daughter about fashion
Youre Wearing That?: Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation by Deborah TannenDeborah Tannens #1 New York Times bestseller You Just Don’t Understand revolutionized communication between women and men. Now, in her most provocative and engaging book to date, she takes on what is potentially the most fraught and passionate connection of women’s lives: the mother-daughter relationship.
It was Tannen who first showed us that men and women speak different languages. Mothers and daughters speak the same language–but still often misunderstand each other, as they struggle to find the right balance between closeness and independence. Both mothers and daughters want to be seen for who they are, but tend to see the other as falling short of who she should be. Each overestimates the other’s power and underestimates her own.
Why do daughters complain that their mothers always criticize, while mothers feel hurt that their daughters shut them out? Why do mothers and daughters critique each other on the Big Three–hair, clothes, and weight–while longing for approval and understanding? And why do they scrutinize each other for reflections of themselves?
Deborah Tannen answers these and many other questions as she explains why a remark that would be harmless coming from anyone else can cause an explosion when it comes from your mother or your daughter. She examines every aspect of this complex dynamic, from the dark side that can shadow a woman throughout her life, to the new technologies like e-mail and instant messaging that are transforming mother-daughter communication. Most important, she helps mothers and daughters understand each other, the key to improving their relationship.
With groundbreaking insights, pitch-perfect dialogues, and deeply moving memories of her own mother, Tannen untangles the knots daughters and mothers can get tied up in. Readers will appreciate Tannen’s humor as they see themselves on every page and come away with real hope for breaking down barriers and opening new lines of communication. Eye-opening and heartfelt, You’re Wearing That? illuminates and enriches one of the most important relationships in our lives.
“Tannen analyzes and decodes scores of conversations between moms and daughters. These exchanges are so real they can make you squirm as you relive the last fraught conversation you had with your own mother or daughter. But Tannen doesnt just point out the pitfalls of the mother-daughter relationship, she also provides guidance for changing the conversations (or the way that we feel about the conversations) before they degenerate into what Tannen calls a mutually aggravating spiral, a self-perpetuating cycle of escalating responses that become provocations. – The San Francisco Chronicle
From the Hardcover edition.
Dialogue Between Fashion and Death
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Mum : Well I am the best person to talk to about anything, the best person to tell you what direction to take, the best person to help you up. Mum : Well you see, I came to this world before you, you might not experience things the way I did, especially with the gap of technology but some old ways can be adapted to the new. Daughter : But you people argue, sometimes he comes to the sitting room and gets angry at me. People disagree to agree. Mum: Sure, am your best friend remember; I have your back and you could teach me what you know. Daughter : I thought you said you came into this world before me, what else do you want to know from me?
Born and educated within the small, but deeply conservative and religious town of Recanati in Italy, Leopardi is best known for his substantial contribution to Romanticism during the first half of the nineteenth century. Despite this, his is distinguished as one of the most important figures of Modern discourse, particularly in Italy. Like many of the others, the conversation between Fashion and Death takes the form of a poetic dialogue. The poem is rendered particularly profound and lasting in the context of contemporary fashion, or moreover, contemporary fashion writing. The work resonates in this context as an unusual example of fashion literature that critiques and parodies, the frivolousness of fashion. Even as this is written before the beginning of the development of the fashion industry into the Modern system post-Industrial Revolution, Post-Charles Worth we know it as today, the sentiment remains powerful.